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What He Wants

Written by an internationally-known expert on spanking and domestic discipline

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Variant Books presents...

...the newest book in the best-selling and critically-praised Vivian Spanking series...

What He Wants: A Man's Seven Secret Spanking Desires
What He Wants  

"Building on the material in the first two books, 'What He Wants' contains a powerful and near-magical secret to maintaining a successful spanking relationship.  It’s a simple, but profound, secret that can turn your partner from a reluctant participant in your spanking desires into a passionate partner who loves to spank you as much as you love to be spanked."

--from the introduction of "What He Wants"

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A message from the author:

Many readers who have used the techniques in the first two books to get their partner to spank them have written to me requesting a follow up book that talks about what happens after that first spanking.  They want to know how they turn one spanking into a lifetime of satisfying spankings in the context of a committed relationship.

This book is for you.           

Warmest,

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Praise for the series:

"Excellent advice... and a very useful read." -- Uncle Agony

"This is the perfect how-to! ... Expertly guides us safely through the landmines that can come with a spanking relationship. " -- Brambleberry Blush

"Good and valuable information!" -- reader comment, All Things Spanking

"Superior! Thank you! " -- reader email

"An excellent reference for those coming to terms with these desires and looking to bring them into their reality, and for those who are currently practicing adult spanking with their partner." -- Sisters in Submission

"A brilliant and superbly-written book!" - reader comment

"An amazing step-by-step guide written for the couple looking to explore the wonderful world of consensual spanking." - Sisters in Submission

"I got [this book] tonight and read it straight through. Made the hairs on the back of my neck stand up - felt like she had written this book about me! Everything I have been trying to say to my husband for the last seven years (and failing miserably) is in this book!" - Domestic Discipline Dreams

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Written by a popular & internationally-recognized expert on spanking and domestic discipline

VIVIAN is the author of the bestselling classic spanking series, including "How to Get the Spanking You Want," and "How to Give a Spanking: Advice from the Receiving End," as well as the popular blog The Disciplined Feminist, which explores the challenges of being a modern woman who also wants (and gets) spankings from her partner. 

With over 25 years of first-hand spanking and "domestic discipline" experience and an extensive background in gender roles and psychology, she has been interviewed for articles in both the popular and academic press, including Salon.com, Bitch magazine and Tango, as well as for documentary and mainstream Hollywood film projects in the U.S. and abroad. Vivian is a pseudonym.

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